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Let’s talk about something that most dating coaches won’t admit… Whether you’re climbing the corporate ladder, running your own business, or working a regular job, there’s an uncomfortable truth about online dating that affects all minority men: Online Dating is actually way harder for non-White guys who want to attract White women. The Raw Numbers […]

Let’s cut the bullshit: You’ve crushed it in your career, built something impressive, and yet… your dating life feels like a tech startup that never made it past the seed round. Ironic, isn’t it? The same guy who can close million-dollar deals can’t seem to close a second date. Here’s the uncomfortable truth most “dating

Have you ever caught yourself saying things like “I only date 10s” or “She must look like a model”? While having standards in dating is crucial, there’s a fundamental difference between authentic standards and superficial requirements. One that might be keeping you from the connections you actually want. The Reality Check: Why Your Standards Might

If you’re like most men using dating apps, you’ve probably invested in “professional” photos.  Maybe you spent hundreds on that photographer everyone recommends.  The one who promises to “optimize your dating profile.” But despite the investment, despite the “high-quality” shots, despite following all the “expert” advice… you’re still not getting the matches you want. Let’s

If someone had told me years ago …that my journey of understanding women would eventually lead me to becoming a male escort, I would have laughed. Or judged. Or both. I didn’t become a coach because I worked as an escort. It was the other way around. I had already spent years studying women, dating

Most guys write bios that could double as their LinkedIn summary and wonder why they get ignored. If your bio doesn’t make her feel something, she’s swiping left. Here’s what actually works: 𝟭. 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝘂𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 A bio like this won’t attract her: ❌ 3x BJJ Black Belt Champion❌ Harvard Business School ‘20❌ Founder of

Most guys who struggle with dating don’t actually have a dating problem. They have a mindset problem. The way you think about dating shapes your actions, which then shapes your results. The men who consistently win don’t just have better looks or skills. They think differently. Here are 10 mindset shifts that separate men who

Most men rush into monogamous relationships without first building a wealth of sexual experiences. THIS IS A BIG MISTAKE. Men who enter relationships from a place of scarcity will ALWAYS struggle to keep their woman “invested.” Why? Because your self-worth becomes far too dependent on her. She becomes your only source of affection, and you

Imagine this scenario: You’re a soldier and the Vietnamese military has just captured you. They take you in and hold you captive, and after all, the chaos settles down. They start attempting to have a normal calm conversation with you. They ask you standard questions about your country and how you feel about it. Eventually

Before I dive in, I want to say first… However, “Just be yourself“ is an incredibly limiting mantra to live by. And it’s actually what’s f*cking so many of you up, whether you’re conscious of it or not. Here’s why… I’ll often tell my students things like be more direct, more sexual. I’ll tell them