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Why you should stop whining about the injustice between men and women in Online Dating 💃🏼⁣

I continously keep hearing men complain about how unfair it is that women have a big advantage in dating, so I wanted to touch on an important topic. ⁣

That is: “The differences between men and women“ when it comes to Dating in general. ⁣
Men often think that women have it waaay easier, because they’re being approached by men and don’t have to do anything themselves.⁣
On top of that they’re getting so many matches on Online Dating apps, even if they’re just using selfies.⁣
However, this couldn’t be further from the truth, in fact I would even say that women have it harder than men when it comes to dating.⁣
Let me explain why:⁣
Imagine you have to be afraid of being judged by society, being seen as “easy“ or a “male slut“ when you want to talk to a woman that you find attractive. ⁣
Welcome to a woman’s reality. ⁣
If a woman wants to approach a man, chances are she’ll be seen by him as desperate, easy or a slut, because she’s taking the first step. ⁣
C’mon, stone age is long over guys.. 🤦🏾‍♂️
Most men that approach women are either not the woman’s type physically, or they’re simply boring, creepy or desperate. ⁣
How much does it suck to always have to rely on luck or fate that an attractive man with a cool personality approaches you?⁣
Me personally, I am happy that I’m not being forced to fulfill this passive role, like women are.⁣
Same thing applies to Tinder or other Online Dating apps. ⁣
It’s no secret that women are getting tons of matches, but most of them are either uncreative, boring, creepy, horny or desperate dudes. ⁣
It’s almost like a full-time job to filter out that one guy who isn’t just attractive but also interesting to talk to. ⁣
What’s it worth to have an abundance of matches if the majority can just be kicked into a trash bin? 🗑️
After a while this turns into a very frustrating situation. ⁣
When you finally match with a guy who’s exactly your type.. It turns out that he’s creepy or a sleeping pill. 😴
So if you want to complain, you’ll always find a reason to put yourself in the victim role. ⁣
But not everything is as it seems at first glance. ⁣
I hope this little reality check could help you see both sides, and not just the “women have it soo easy in Dating“ one.⁣

Cheers, ⁣
Sandric