Why your bio is ruining your Online Datingg career 🥇
Firstly, a bio’s only purpose is to make you stand out from the competition of other men on Online Dating apps.
But what do most men do?
They’re busy qualifying for the championship of the world’s most boring man.
I don’t know what your bio looks like, but If it includes:
● Boring logical facts about yourself.
● „Inspirational“ quotes.
● or other things that lead to women rolling their eyes while swiping left at the speed of light.
Chances are high you’re going to make it to the finals.
Women don’t want to date boring and predictable men. They want a man who stimulates her emotions.
𝗣𝗮𝘆 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴
Nothing is more of a turn off for women, than men who make spelling mistakes in their bio.
If you make them, women are immediately going to assume that you’re not very intelligent.
This makes you much more unattractive, as intelligence is a very sexy character trait.
𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆
Over the years of my career as a coach I’ve ran into countless men who basically think their bio is an essay.
They go on and on writing about how awesome their life is.
Your bio is NOT the place to list:
● Favorite colors
● Animals you love
● Your bank balance
● The cars you own
● Sexual skills
● The weight you can lift
● Character traits
Women want to know how it’s like to hang out with you and not read a book about you.
𝗦𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝗲𝗹𝗹
This in my opinion is by far the most critical mistake I’ve seen men make.
She doesn’t believe when you TELL her how funny, outgoing and sporty you are.
Every man can write whatever he wants in his bio and it could easily be a lie.
Women had men lying to them probably more times than you changed your underwear in life.
Instead SHOW her through your pictures, bio and messages what kind of things you’re into and how hilarious you are.
𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗹𝗲𝗲𝗽𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗯𝗲𝗮𝘂𝘁𝘆
Even if you’re into fairy tales, which I am too, you don’t want to bore women to death (or sleep) by listing all your qualities and passions.
Oh, you’re into music, nature and traveling?
Guess what, 99% of the world population is as well.
I know, shocking right?
Let that sink in for a moment.
So when it comes to the bio please don’t write a list of all those basic things that every other guy on this planet is into.
This will just lead to women putting you in the „Standard boring guy“ category, where you definitely don’t want to end up.
Here we go, those are the most common and critical mistakes that men do when it comes to their bio.
Next time I’ll get into a few of the things you should include in your bio instead, stay tuned!