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Why getting home dates with women is easier than you think 🍷

Many men believe women would never come to their place on the first date or invite them over.

And I can’t blame them because I used to be one of those men.

Maybe you even think you need to bring her flowers and wait until the 3rd date for the first kiss.

I know I certainly did, because it’s the bs that society and Hollywood movies have brainwashed us with.

However, these things couldn’t be further from the truth.

It’s all about making women feel safe, knowing how to handle objections and creating win-win situations in a very natural way.

In the examples that you can see here I’ve ghostwritten for two students of mine.

I usually don’t do this because everyone has to learn how to text themselves, however in their cases I made exceptions as I explain below.

They simultaneously worked with a different Online Dating Coach before but weren’t happy with their results and didn’t get dates, so they came to me.

I decided to get both of my students home dates, just to demonstrate that it’s actually possible within a few messages.

On the same day one of them had a great “cuddle“ date as you can see on the attached screenshots and the other got two home dates because I was in the flow.

Of course with attractive women they’ve never met in person before.

I also made sure everything was already agreed upon: the wine, cuddles and the massage.

Before we continue I want to clarify something, because otherwise it might give off the wrong impression.

I don’t teach men how to have meaningless ONS or act like F-boys, lying to women just to get them into bed.

What I do teach is how to create genuine, meaningful connections while being honest and authentic.

Obviously depending on your goals that can be either multiple casual relationships, or a serious relationship with the woman of your dreams.

Intimacy is just a logical consequence of it when two people have chemistry and are attracted to each other.

However, if you’re only looking to waste your time collecting ONS or “lays“ for your ego, then please stop reading now and look for someone else to help you.

Having gotten this out of the way, there are quite a few things that I love about home dates compared to “traditional“ ones:

  1. There’s no judgement from other people like there would be in public, so this will make it easier for the woman to be her authentic self.
  1. You’re saving a ton of valuable time that you would have to spend getting to an outside date location and back home.
  1. You’re saving a lot of money that you would have to spend on drinks or food (more so if you usually pay for women as well).
  1. You’re avoiding unnecessary objections that would most likely come up after your outside date.
  1. Even if the woman cancels it’s no big deal, because you’re sitting in the comfort of your home and don’t have to go anywhere.
  1. It’s more likely to lead to something intimate, because you’re already in a private environment.
  1. The “risk“ of ending up in the “friendzone“ is way lower since you’ve already agreed on cuddling, cooking, splitting a bottle of wine, massages, etc. at your place and from there on it’s easy to move things forward.

Anyway, an amazing top 10% profile can do a lot of the heavy lifting for you.

It will lead to women reaching out first, complimenting you, asking questions and investing more into the conversation.

Please don’t get me wrong, obviously you still need proper Textgame as well as a deep understanding of frames, emotions and vibes.

Otherwise they’ll lose interest faster than you can imagine.

Yes, even if a woman wrote to you first you can’t just turn off your brain and text whatever you want.

But overall they will be more attracted and forgiving.

Now If you also want to get more attractive matches and home dates, then comment click on the button below to schedule your free discovery call.

Within just 12 weeks we will turn you from whatever starting point you’re at into an Online Dating Superhero.

All this in a tailor suited 1on1 coaching, while being your authentic self and without having to rely on copy paste messages.

Screw those one size fits all approaches, in most cases they don’t work.

Every person has their own story, struggles, personality and even ethnicity.

You can buy a suit at a clothing store like Zara and it will look 𝗴𝗼𝗼𝗱.

But if you bring it to the tailor and let him adjust it to your physique it will look 𝗮𝗯𝘀𝗼𝗹𝘂𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗮𝗺𝗮𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴.

Same thing with Online Dating.

I’m so confident that I can get you results, that I’ll basically make it risk free.

My bold guarantee?

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘄𝗲 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 “𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗦𝘂𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗼 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻“ 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝘁𝘆𝗽𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝘅𝘁 𝟲𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀… 𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗼.

See you on the other side.

Cheers,⁣
Sandric