I know, for many men it’s quite crazy to discover an Online Dating Coach who’s not spending his entire time finding and dating new women.
To be honest, this might lead to some people not wanting to work with me because I’m not constantly applying what I teach anymore, but that’s totally fine.
For a long time I thought I knew what abundance meant.
I dated a ton of amazing women, had the craziest adventures that most men can only dream of and it felt great for a while.
However, I was never able to really go deeper with any of them.
I would stop myself from feeling but call it abundance, something didn’t feel right.
I always thought this was what I really desired..
Until I met my soulmate who I wanted to be in a relationship with.
Spending time with her made me realize that what I thought I wanted was just an illusion created through various external influences.
But even when I met her I still doubted the idea of a committed relationship for quite some time, because it would “ruin my abundance“ and “idea of freedom“.
So there I was, having spent my entire life working on improving myself and developing this skill set to be happy and free, just to be held back by it now.
I stopped myself, looked in the mirror, meditated on it and came to the conclusion that in order to be truly free, I couldn’t make my decisions based on keeping some “identity“ or “image“ alive.
Instead, I had to do what I actually wanted and made me happy.
Nowadays I know that abundance is what you make of it.
It’s something highly individual and different for every person.
It could be having an amazing girlfriend that you love to spend every single second of your valuable time with.
But it could also be to enjoy your single life, dating multiple women and creating win-win situations for the both of you.
Never be confined to a box or let other people’s perceptions limit you.
Live your life on your own terms and stay true to your values.