There are three things you’re probably doing that are slaughtering your results in online dating right now.
I recently had a very ambitious client who I helped with his profile and who made all of those mistakes.
Once we fixed them, he started getting lots of matches and dates with exactly the type of women he wanted.
It’s not strange that guys resort to this style of photography. After all, it’s superfast to take a selfie. But trust me when I tell you to take them to where they belong, the trash.
By posting selfies you subcommunicate two things to women:
1. No one takes photos of me, but me. I guess I’m not that interesting to be around.
2. I am constantly looking at myself and I take photos of myself because I’m just very into myself.
If that wasn’t enough, the angle is often horrible and the quality leaves much to be desired.
99% of men on online dating apps think that women love to watch them work out, being all sweaty, veins popping out.
In reality the opposite is true. Women cringe when they see you posting a picture in the gym, trying to show how manly you are.
It’s even worse, if those pictures are shirtless selfies taken in front of the gym mirror or the bathroom. Nothing screams narcissistic douchebag more than that.
I’m not entirely sure why, but there’s so many men posing next to the love of their life, also called their car.
If you think that makes you seem like a high status man, think again.
Women are going to assume that you either just found that car somewhere and took a picture with it, or that you’re trying to compensate for something.
Hence the only thing you achieve by posting pictures where you’re standing next or close to a car, is coming across as extremely tryhard.
I hope I was able to help you to get clearer on what mistakes to avoid when it comes to your online dating pictures.