As promised last time, today I’ll get into the things you should include in your bio to get women more engaged in the conversation and even make them want to message you first.
If your current bio looks anything like
„I love music, traveling and nature..“
Be prepared to press the backspace until everything is gone and even longer just to make sure.
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗼𝗿𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗽𝗼𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘇𝗶𝗻𝗴
Getting matches is alright, but if you’re not just a match collector you want to get matches with the RIGHT kind of women that are just your type.
To achieve that, it’s very important to include your humor and personality in the bio.
Let’s say you want to open a Pizzeria and your slogan is:
„We sell Food“.
This is the equivalent to a boring and logical bio, it’s not targeting anyone specific.
If on the other hand your slogan would be:
„We sell the tastiest, organic Pizza that you’ll ever eat in your entire life made from fresh, hand picked ingredients.“
Now your target audience is much more defined and you’re going to attract a specific type of people who will absolutely LOVE what you have to offer.
How does this translate into Online Dating?
There will be women that are going to read your bio and immediately swipe you left because they don’t resonate with your humor at all.
But that’s normal, you don’t want them anyway.
On the other hand there will be women that burst out laughing or can’t stop themselves from smiling while reading your profile.
That’s the kind of women you want to attract, because with them the conversation will flow and the date will be much more fun as you’ve got a similar personality.
As long as your Tinder profile text speaks to exactly the women that YOU like, it’s fine.
All other ones can swipe you left, unmatch you, block you, hate you, etc.
Now I can hear you thinking „I see Sandric, nice theory, but do you have any examples?“
Of course especially for you my aspiring Online Dating Superhero, I got one.
„I love long romantic walks on the beach with my girlfriend.. until the LSD wears off and I realize I’m just dragging a stolen mannequin across a McDonald’s parking lot.“
This is my kind of humor and not everyone is into that.
But the likes from the women that are, will almost be like Superlikes.
𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗱𝘀
So what the hell do I mean by that?
There’s always a million different ways you can say the same thing.
You could describe it very logical and boring or emotional and lively.
In Online Dating you should always try to use language as a way to paint images in the head of the reader.
Let’s give you a juicy example since you love them so much:
You could either just say:
„My hobby is riding a motorcycle.“
That’s very boring and way too dry.
I can promise you that it won’t trigger any curiosity in women.
On the other hand you could say:
„I love the feeling of freedom when I fly across the highway with my Harley“
See what a big difference in makes, even though you’re basically talking about the same thing?
The latter is much more emotional and allows you to imagine how the person is performing a certain action.
So whenever you can, use your language to paint images.
𝗠𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝘄𝗶𝗽𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮 𝗖𝗧𝗔
Anyone who is successful in marketing knows how important it is to ALWAYS include a call to action (CTA).
It’s a specific action you want someone to take.
So if for example I say:
„Click here to learn how to separate yourself from the competition on Online Dating apps to get likes and matches with the women you desire“
That’s a very specific call to action and makes you curious.
You’re probably going to click on the link.
When it comes to Online dating that could translate into:
● Adding a question at the end
● Qualifying her with a challenge
● Telling her to message you first
But the easiest and most effective way to use a call to action, is to add a question at the end of your bio.
Because the human brain is made so we that we can’t help it but want to answer any question that we hear or read immediately.
It’s simply deep rooted in ourselves and we automatically react to it.
Of course that question can’t just be logical and boring again, it needs to be interesting and creative.
That way chances are much higher for women to swipe you right and message you afterwards.
Here I’ll give you three questions that you could use, but try to come up with your own over time.
● Would you rather give up sex or music for your entire life?
● Pizza or Pasta? (Hint: There’s only one right answer)
● Biggest fear.. spinach, spiders or answering „Thanks, you too“ when the waiter tells you „Enjoy your meal“ in a restaurant?
That’s about it, I hope you were able to learn a thing or two and will implement some of the principles I explained in your own bio.