The attention span of women on Online Dating apps is extremely low.
So it’s absolutely vital, that your profile catches their attention from the first millisecond on.
Some of the tools to achieve that are:
● Signal words
● NLP prompts
● Plot Twists
Let’s jump deeper into what the hell that is, shall we?
𝗖𝗹𝗶𝗰𝗸 𝗯𝗮𝗶𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱
I bet you’ve been in this situation.
You’re working on your computer, you’ve got a certain task to complete.
But then all of a sudden you see some silly article headline:
“Naked images of Zac Efron leaked! You won’t believe the size of his best friend!”
„Naked Images of Scarlett Johansson leaked! You won’t believe her actual size!“
Damn you’re thinking…
You’re quite tempted to give the 2nd link a click, aren’t you?
Just a quick look at the photos and then you’ll close the tab and go back to work.
That’s what most people would do.
It’s exactly why the internet is FLOODED with clickbait.
The psychological principle of curiosity is just too powerful.
We can make use of exactly the same click-bait principle to hook women in, so they look at our profile.
Some of the Signal words to use could be:
● Don’t read the next sentence!
Here’s a sweet example for you, because I know how much you love them:
„Warning! Once you hear my Will Smith Imitation, you’re probably going to want to marry me.“
Our brain is wired in a way to immediately notice words like caution or attention.
We can’t help it but pay attention to them.
Same goes for the following..
𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿 𝗼𝗳 𝗡𝗟𝗣 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗽𝘁𝘀
Adding NLP prompts at the beginning of your profile is another very powerful way to grab women’s attention.
Now you’re probably thinking to yourself:
„WTF Sandric, can you already stop making use of abbreviations? I don’t understand shit.
Dont worry, I’ll explain the meaning to you in a second.
NLP stands for „Neural linguistic programming“.
It’s a very effective combination of linguistics and psychology.
Without going too much into the details, but when we hear phrases like
„Imagine that..“ or „Listen..“
Our brain automatically follows those prompts and is much more attentive and receptive for what comes afterwards.
𝗠𝗮𝘅𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘇𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗰𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆
This is something I haven’t initially announced to cover, but I thought it’s nice to have in your toolkit.
By including open sentences in your bio like:
„Do you know what’s really the worst..“
You can increase the curiosity level even more.
We humans react with enormous attention, when we hear incomplete information.
So when we hear a sentence that has been started but not finished, our brain wants to complete it no matter what.
That’s why you’ll definitely have a woman’s attention if you start your profile with such a sentence.
She won’t be able to help herself but continue reading the next one.
𝗦𝗵𝗼𝗰𝗸 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮 𝗣𝗹𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝘄𝗶𝘀𝘁
The last principle I’ll talk about is one of my favorite ones.
Begin your bio with a strange and extremely surprising fact or story.
Let me give you an example:
„I always keep a loaded gun on my nightstand in the event of an intruder“
This could be the first part that’s going to produce a curious WTF effect in the woman’s mind.
It’s what you want, as that makes you stand out from the crowd.
Obviously she’ll want to know, why it is that you’re keeping a gun on your nightstand.
But in a case like this, it’s important to immediately follow it up with the resolution.
Just so she doesn’t assume you’re a creepy weapon fanatic.
Now let’s continue with the second part:
„so I can shoot myself to avoid meeting new people.“
After this second part, the woman will probably experience emotions of relieve, happiness, laugh out loud and be more attracted to you.
With this little plot twist alone, you showed her that you’re different, creative and hilarious.
All that without being boring like 99% of the other guys in Online Dating and simply writing „I’m creative and funny“ into your bio.
You basically just unleashed the true Power of „Show don’t tell“.
We finally arrived at the end of this novel.
Those principles are usually only being used by Marketing and Sales experts, but now they’re part of your toolkit as well.