When it comes to Online Dating, humor is the strongest weapon in your arsenal.
By reading and answering your comments and questions, I got the feeling that it still hasn’t become clear how to properly use humor to your advantage in the bio.
So this post will be all about that.
I can already hear some of you asking:
„But why do I even need to add humor?
I don’t want to be seen as a friendly version of Pennywise because that’s not Alpha that’s Omega!!!11“
I can promise you, it won’t happen at all.
Actually, the opposite is true.
You’ll be perceived as much more attractive by women.
As long as you do it properly.
There’s a couple of techniques you can use to show humor in your bio, but today I’ll focus on just one.
So without further ado, let’s jump right into it.
𝗧𝘂𝗿𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗲𝗮𝗸𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗴𝘁𝗵
So what do I mean by that?
I want you to use self deprecating humor, the in my opinion most effective way.
Doing so, you basically hit three birds with one stone, like a real stone master.
That’s because it subcommunicates some very important things:
● You’re making fun of yourself, therefore you must be confident. People who aren’t, wouldn’t bring up their weaknesses.
● You’re making her laugh and show her part of your personality in an emotional instead of a logical way.
● You’re different than 99% of the male population in Online Dating, since your bio isn’t just a list of things you like or dislike.
On top of that you’ll develop a more positive mindset, as you realize that your weaknesses aren’t as bad as you might have thought.
„I get it Sandric, those sound amazing on paper, but how do I actually apply this in my own bio?“
„Worry not my young padawan, I always got your back.“
Let’s assume that one of your weaknesses is cooking.
And you’re also not as fit as the God of thunder himself, the almighty Thor aka Chris Hemsworth.
Of course I’m not referring to the scene in Avengers Endgame, where he looks like he just devoured dinner for an entire army.
Yes, I’m a HUGE Marvel’s Superhero Nerd.
Anyway, back to the topic.
You could say something like:
„I’m a great cook, as long as you love frozen pizza.“
„I’m extremely athletic, I regularly take part in Ben&Jerrys marathons.“
See how both sentences aren’t logical, but emotional?
Of course, those are just examples and you’ll have to come up with lines for your own, personal weaknesses.
But I hope that the principles behind it are much clearer for you now.
In my next post I’ll show you how to immediately capture a woman’s attention with your bio.
We’ll achieve that by making use of signal words and plot twists, so stay tuned!
If you feel this is something you still need help with and you want to take your profile including the pictures to the next level, don’t hesitate to contact me.
We’ll have a quick chat and see if what I do can be helpful in your particular situation.