The BIG reason why you are not getting matches with women you desire 🚫

Today I wanted to talk about something that men in my opinion don’t pay enough attention to. ⁣

Even though it’s very damn important…⁣

The number AND attractiveness of pictures you use on your Online Dating Profile.⁣

You’re probably thinking: „But the more I show her how awesome I am and what an amazing life I have, the higher the chances will be for her to match me. “ ⁣

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

Imagine this scenario:⁣⁣

You see a woman on Tinder with a beautiful first photo showing her cute smile.⁣⁣

On her second photo she’s strolling along the beach in a bikini, enjoying the soft waves during sunset.⁣⁣

The third photo shows her with friends and everyone is having fun. ⁣⁣

Picture number 4 shows her face again but this photo is uhm… totally different. And not in a good way.⁣⁣

Were the first three pictures just her lucky shots but does she actually look like number 4?

⁣⁣If she had only selected 3 pictures you would’ve gladly swiped her right, but now she’s very likely to be nexted.⁣⁣

When taking pictures, the circumstances rarely are perfect, so it doesn’t help that Online Dating is very shallow. ⁣⁣

It might be your daily condition, bad lighting, lack of sleep, skin problems or even something completely different.⁣⁣

But one simple mistake often decides whether you have the opportunity to talk to a beautiful woman or disappear into oblivion forever. ⁣

Actually, the only thing you’re achieving by adding the maximum number of pictures to your profile is coming across as a tryhard. ⁣

It makes it seem like you would even add 100 pictures if it were possible.⁣

Once you matched, why not send her some childhood photo album too?⁣

Just so she can see how cute you looked in the past. ⁣

To make it even worse, it increases the probability of you choosing a picture that leads to her swiping left.⁣

The pictures that we think are the best, are often one of the reasons that we’re not getting the likes and matches with the women we desire. ⁣

This is, because we aren’t able to objectively take a critical look at our own profile.⁣

We use different parts of our brain when looking at pictures of ourselves than when we’re looking at pictures of others. ⁣

Over the years I’ve found the sweetspot to be 5-6 pictures. ⁣

You don’t want to show everything about you, keep some mystery. ⁣

But at the same time show just enough for her to become curious and interested.⁣

I hope making this one change to your Online Dating Profile will increase your results. ⁣

Cheers,⁣
Sandric