Today I wanted to talk about something that men in my opinion donât pay enough attention to. âŁ
Even though itâs very damn importantâŠâŁ
The number AND attractiveness of pictures you use on your Online Dating Profile.âŁ
Youâre probably thinking: âBut the more I show her how awesome I am and what an amazing life I have, the higher the chances will be for her to match me. â âŁ
This couldnât be further from the truth.
Imagine this scenario:âŁâŁ
You see a woman on Tinder with a beautiful first photo showing her cute smile.âŁâŁ
On her second photo she’s strolling along the beach in a bikini, enjoying the soft waves during sunset.âŁâŁ
The third photo shows her with friends and everyone is having fun. âŁâŁ
Picture number 4 shows her face again but this photo is uhm⊠totally different. And not in a good way.âŁâŁ
Were the first three pictures just her lucky shots but does she actually look like number 4?
âŁâŁIf she had only selected 3 pictures you would’ve gladly swiped her right, but now she’s very likely to be nexted.âŁâŁ
When taking pictures, the circumstances rarely are perfect, so it doesn’t help that Online Dating is very shallow. âŁâŁ
It might be your daily condition, bad lighting, lack of sleep, skin problems or even something completely different.âŁâŁ
But one simple mistake often decides whether you have the opportunity to talk to a beautiful woman or disappear into oblivion forever. âŁ
Actually, the only thing youâre achieving by adding the maximum number of pictures to your profile is coming across as a tryhard. âŁ
It makes it seem like you would even add 100 pictures if it were possible.âŁ
Once you matched, why not send her some childhood photo album too?âŁ
Just so she can see how cute you looked in the past. âŁ
To make it even worse, it increases the probability of you choosing a picture that leads to her swiping left.âŁ
The pictures that we think are the best, are often one of the reasons that weâre not getting the likes and matches with the women we desire. âŁ
This is, because we arenât able to objectively take a critical look at our own profile.âŁ
We use different parts of our brain when looking at pictures of ourselves than when weâre looking at pictures of others. âŁ
Over the years Iâve found the sweetspot to be 5-6 pictures. âŁ
You donât want to show everything about you, keep some mystery. âŁ
But at the same time show just enough for her to become curious and interested.âŁ
I hope making this one change to your Online Dating Profile will increase your results. âŁ
Cheers,âŁ
Sandric