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Why you should stop whining about the injustice between men and women in Online Dating ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผโฃ

I continously keep hearing men complain about how unfair it is that women have a big advantage in dating, so I wanted to touch on an important topic. โฃ
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That is: โ€œThe differences between men and womenโ€œ when it comes to Dating in general. โฃ
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Men often think that women have it waaay easier, because they’re being approached by men and don’t have to do anything themselves.โฃ
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On top of that they’re getting so many matches on Online Dating apps, even if they’re just using selfies.โฃ
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However, this couldn’t be further from the truth, in fact I would even say that women have it harder than men when it comes to dating.โฃ
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Let me explain why:โฃ
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Imagine you have to be afraid of being judged by society, being seen as โ€œeasyโ€œ or a โ€œmale slutโ€œ when you want to talk to a woman that you find attractive. โฃ
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Welcome to a woman’s reality. โฃ
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If a woman wants to approach a man, chances are she’ll be seen by him as desperate, easy or a slut, because she’s taking the first step. โฃ
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C’mon, stone age is long over guys.. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿพโ€โ™‚๏ธโฃ
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Most men that approach women are either not the woman’s type physically, or they’re simply boring, creepy or desperate. โฃ
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How much does it suck to always have to rely on luck or fate that an attractive man with a cool personality approaches you?โฃ
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Me personally, I am happy that I’m not being forced to fulfill this passive role, like women are.โฃ
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Same thing applies to Tinder or other Online Dating apps. โฃ
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It’s no secret that women are getting tons of matches, but most of them are either uncreative, boring, creepy, horny or desperate dudes. โฃ
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It’s almost like a full-time job to filter out that one guy who isn’t just attractive but also interesting to talk to. โฃ
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What’s it worth to have an abundance of matches if the majority can just be kicked into a trash bin? ๐Ÿ—‘๏ธโฃ
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After a while this turns into a very frustrating situation. โฃ
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When you finally match with a guy who’s exactly your type.. It turns out that he’s creepy or a sleeping pill. ๐Ÿ˜ดโฃ
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So if you want to complain, you’ll always find a reason to put yourself in the victim role. โฃ
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But not everything is as it seems at first glance. โฃ
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I hope this little reality check could help you see both sides, and not just the โ€œwomen have it soo easy in Datingโ€œ one.โฃ
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Cheers, โฃSandric