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Why your bio is ruining your Online Datingg career ๐Ÿฅ‡โฃ

Firstly, a bioโ€™s only purpose is to make you stand out from the competition of other men on Online Dating apps.โฃ
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But what do most men do?โฃ
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Theyโ€™re busy qualifying for the championship of the worldโ€™s most boring man.โฃ
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I don’t know what your bio looks like, but If it includes:โฃ
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โ— Boring logical facts about yourself.โฃ
โ— โ€žInspirationalโ€œ quotes.โฃ
โ— or other things that lead to women rolling their eyes while swiping left at the speed of light.โฃ
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Chances are high you’re going to make it to the finals. ๐Ÿ†โฃ
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Women donโ€™t want to date boring and predictable men. They want a man who stimulates her emotions.โฃ
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๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดโฃ
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Nothing is more of a turn off for women, than men who make spelling mistakes in their bio. โฃ
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If you make them, women are immediately going to assume that you’re not very intelligent. โฃ
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This makes you much more unattractive, as intelligence is a very sexy character trait. ๐Ÿง โฃ
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๐——๐—ผ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜†โฃ
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Over the years of my career as a coach I’ve ran into countless men who basically think their bio is an essay.โฃ
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They go on and on writing about how awesome their life is. โฃ
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Your bio is NOT the place to list:โฃ
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โ— Hobbysโฃ
โ— Favorite colorsโฃ
โ— Animals you loveโฃ
โ— Your bank balanceโฃ
โ— The cars you ownโฃ
โ— Sexual skillsโฃ
โ— The weight you can liftโฃ
โ— Character traitsโฃ
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Women want to know how it’s like to hang out with you and not read a book about you. ๐Ÿ“™โฃ
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๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—น๐—นโฃ
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This in my opinion is by far the most critical mistake I’ve seen men make. โฃ
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She doesn’t believe when you TELL her how funny, outgoing and sporty you are. โฃ
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Every man can write whatever he wants in his bio and it could easily be a lie.โฃ
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Women had men lying to them probably more times than you changed your underwear in life.โฃ
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Instead SHOW her through your pictures, bio and messages what kind of things you’re into and how hilarious you are.โฃ
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๐——๐—ผ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐˜†โฃ
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Even if you’re into fairy tales, which I am too, you don’t want to bore women to death (or sleep) by listing all your qualities and passions. ๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’คโฃ
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Oh, you’re into music, nature and traveling?โฃ
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Guess what, 99% of the world population is as well. โฃ
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I know, shocking right?โฃ
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Let that sink in for a moment.โฃ
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So when it comes to the bio please don’t write a list of all those basic things that every other guy on this planet is into. โฃ
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This will just lead to women putting you in the โ€žStandard boring guyโ€œ category, where you definitely don’t want to end up. โฃ
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Here we go, those are the most common and critical mistakes that men do when it comes to their bio.ย 
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Next time I’ll get into a few of the things you should include in your bio instead, stay tuned!โฃ
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Cheers,โฃ Sandric