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Three mistakes you're making when it comes to your profile pictures โ€ผ๏ธโฃ

There are three things youโ€™re probably doing that are slaughtering your results in online dating right now. โฃ
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I recently had a very ambitious client who I helped with his profile and who made all of those mistakes. โฃ
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Once we fixed them, he started getting lots of matches and dates with exactly the type of women he wanted.โฃ
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Itโ€™s not strange that guys resort to this style of photography. After all, itโ€™s superfast to take a selfie. But trust me when I tell you to take them to where they belong, the trash. โฃ
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By posting selfies you subcommunicate two things to women:โฃ
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1. No one takes photos of me, but me. I guess Iโ€™m not that interesting to be around.โฃ
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2. I am constantly looking at myself and I take photos of myself because Iโ€™m just very into myself.โฃ
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If that wasn’t enough, the angle is often horrible and the quality leaves much to be desired. โฃ
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99% of men on online dating apps think that women love to watch them work out, being all sweaty, veins popping out.โฃ
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In reality the opposite is true. Women cringe when they see you posting a picture in the gym, trying to show how manly you are.โฃ
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It’s even worse, if those pictures are shirtless selfies taken in front of the gym mirror or the bathroom. Nothing screams narcissistic douchebag more than that.โฃ
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I’m not entirely sure why, but there’s so many men posing next to the love of their life, also called their car. โฃ
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If you think that makes you seem like a high status man, think again. โฃ
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Women are going to assume that you either just found that car somewhere and took a picture with it, or that you’re trying to compensate for something.โฃ
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Hence the only thing you achieve by posting pictures where you’re standing next or close to a car, is coming across as extremely tryhard. โฃ
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I hope I was able to help you to get clearer on what mistakes to avoid when it comes to your online dating pictures.โฃ
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Cheers, โฃSandric