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Are you wasting money on shootings? ๐Ÿ’ธโฃ

Whenever men come to me for help, there’s a couple of mistakes I keep seeing over and over again. โฃโฃ
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Don’t get me wrong.โฃ
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Professional pictures are able to increase your online dating results big time. โฃ
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But only if done right.โฃ
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๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ณ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€โฃ
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Seriously, this is probably one of the biggest mistakes I see men doing.โฃ
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They use multiple pictures from the same day, wearing the same outfit just being in a different location. โฃ
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Nothing screams โ€žI did a shooting just for online datingโ€œ more than that.โฃ
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I’m not saying that taking pictures especially for your profile is bad, but you don’t need to rub it into the woman’s face. โฃ
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Most of the time you want to make it seem like you weren’t even aware that a photo has been taken of you. โฃ
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That’s what I call the โ€žSnapshot effectโ€œ. ๐Ÿ“ธโฃ
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๐——๐—ผ๐—ป’๐˜ ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฒ๐Ÿต ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปโฃ
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Same story and should be avoided at all cost. โฃ
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I think it’s even worse than wearing the same outfit in multiple pictures, or at least equally as bad.โฃ
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It shows that you were too lazy to even move to a different location. โฃ
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And if you’re also wearing the same outfit on multiple pictures in the same location.. โฃ
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You can already wave goodbye to all the likes and matches you could’ve received otherwise. ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿพ โฃ
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๐—”๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—นโฃ
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Once in a blue moon I’m working with a client that doesn’t make any of the other mistakes. โฃ
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When that’s the case and I’m about to pray.. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพโฃ
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He makes the third one. โฃ
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I know you think that you have one angle or expression that’s more flattering. โฃ
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Which you always use for those precious selfies. โฃ
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But having the same expression or pose in every picture, doesn’t only make it look like photoshoot. โฃ
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It also makes you seem like a very boring, uncreative and one dimensional person. โฃ
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You want to show different shades of your personality.โฃ
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Doesn’t have to be 50, unless you’re a big fan of the movie.โฃ
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In that case, we’ll keep it our little secret. ๐Ÿ˜‰โฃ
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That wraps it up.โฃ
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Don’t make these photoshoot mistakes. โฃ
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Else you could basically just send women the following letter with a carrier pigeon ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ:โฃ
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โ€žHey girl, I didn’t have any awesome pictures of myself to convince you of my worth. โฃ
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So yeah, of course I booked a professional photographer especially for online dating to make me appear as sexy as possible. โฃ
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Nothing else in my life is worth taking a picture of, that’s why I’m only using the photoshoot ones. โฃ
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Also, don’t mind me having the same pose and expression on every picture. โฃ
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That’s just because I’m very uncreative and one dimensional.โฃ
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I hope you will forgive me since I’m still a nice person regardless of those things.โฃ
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Love you. ๐Ÿ˜˜โ€œโฃ
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I really hope that this post leads to a better online dating world for men and women alike. โฃ
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Sometimes I feel sorry for all the women rolling their eyes in pain while looking at men’s profiles. โฃ
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But then again, I’m here to make it just a little less painful.โฃ
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Next time when you have a photoshooting think about all these mistakes.โฃ
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Do your best to avoid them and thank me later.โฃ
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Cheers, โฃSandric